#mental health, Opinion

Dementia in the family.

Raising awareness and supporting families that relate to dementia is very important. Family support is a fundamental aspect of managing mental health especially since dementia comes with forgetfulness and cognitive impairment. This can strain relations in the family and many are not equipped emotionally and physically to handle the situation or environment.

This comes with prejudices and myths that many African communities lack information or resources about dementia. Due to this challenge, many fear the thoughts of community members and learning to adjust with an open mind.
There is a need to take note that the journey of living with dementia is different for each person.

This is why family roles can have a huge impact on the individual. Frustration and anxiety can build when a loved one has difficulty processing what is being requested of them. Instead, guide them with positive action statements, ask fewer questions and help them feel seen and understood.

As dementia might affect the elderly in our homes it is important to keep in mind we might get there too. this is why equipping every individual in the home under such circumstances can be impactful in embracing such a situation if it does on behalf of the home.  Chances are the affected become dependants and cannot afford to fend for themselves daily. This is why family members need to contribute in making their life comfortable and bearable. Let’s be honest most of us freak out and pan with ic when we can’t remember where we left our chargers. imagine having your whole life taken away.


Dementia takes a lot from a family but that change shouldn’t take away the opportunities in creating more memories and living on.  If as a family you do feel the need to get professional facilities that deal and take care of individuals with dementia feel free to enable them with the best of care. 


They don’t need to face this alone. Many families are struggling to assist or give adequate care. There is no need to be ashamed. You don’t need to face this alone. they should be taken in adequate places to have their specific needs taken care of. But remember the little you do of checking in can be a delight to the memory.

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